https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/79424.The_Way_of_the_Superior_Man

• Your insecurity may cause you to doubt yourself, and so you take the easy way, not even approaching your real edge or your real gift. Alternatively, your
  insecurity may lead you to push, push, push, seeking to become victorious over your own sense of lack.
• Choose men friends who themselves are living at their edge, facing their fears and living just beyond them.
• If you know your purpose, your deepest desire, then the secret of success is to discipline your life so that you support your deepest purpose and minimize distractions and detours.
  But if you don’t know your deepest desire, then you can’t align your life to it.
• It is not the amount of time but the quality of the interaction that most influences a child’s
  growth. Children are exquisitely sensitive to emotional tone.
• When speaking to your woman, it is always better to call the glass half full
  than half empty.
• As it seems, Masculine must live free, genuine, and live by core for each moment. feminine want this and always cross test. this is why the most masculine man gets the pure love.
• Women can seem to bring you to your true nature. Or they can seem to take you away from it.
  So the first step is to align your own life so that, at least in this present moment,
  you are living at your edge, fully aligned with your sense of purpose

This book is too good to read for self improvement and understand the energy in self. after reading through this book, i can remind of each movie where masculianity is shown under hero character and this is the reason it is called hero and the proverbs, even the example of tulsidas and her wife conversation. why it is said that , there is a women hand behind success of every man, becuase, a women who knows him fully, understand him, will test him in every aspect as the world will do. so that he is ready when the time is there.

– Collected by Chandra Kishor