https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/79424.The_Way_of_the_Superior_Man

• Your insecurity may cause you to doubt yourself, and so you take the easy way, not even approaching your real edge or your real gift. Alternatively, your
  insecurity may lead you to push, push, push, seeking to become victorious over your own sense of lack.
• Choose men friends who themselves are living at their edge, facing their fears and living just beyond them.
• If you know your purpose, your deepest desire, then the secret of success is to discipline your life so that you support your deepest purpose and minimize distractions and detours.
  But if you don't know your deepest desire, then you can't align your life to it.
• It is not the amount of time but the quality of the interaction that most influences a child's
  growth. Children are exquisitely sensitive to emotional tone.
• When speaking to your woman, it is always better to call the glass half full
  than half empty.
• As it seems, Masculine must live free, genuine, and live by core for each moment. feminine want this and always cross test. this is why the most masculine man gets the pure love.
• Women can seem to bring you to your true nature. Or they can seem to take you away from it.
  So the first step is to align your own life so that, at least in this present moment,
  you are living at your edge, fully aligned with your sense of purpose

This book is too good to read for self improvement and understand the energy in self. after reading through this book, i can remind of each movie where masculianity is shown under hero character and this is the reason it is called hero and the proverbs, even the example of tulsidas and her wife conversation. why it is said that , there is a women hand behind success of every man, becuase, a women who knows him fully, understand him, will test him in every aspect as the world will do. so that he is ready when the time is there.

- Collected by Chandra Kishor

1) Inner peace is everything, focus is within, distrubance is within. Don't swtich between task and do something physically evaluated
2) OCAEN psonality spectrum, personality can be change , you just need to behave so consistently
3) to be mroe creatie, you need to free your mind and explore more, beyond boundriaes
4) memories : use narratives stories, emotions to make that strong and detailed. Practice and meditation can improve focus.

- Collected by Chandra Kishor

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/97642.No_More_Mr_Nice_Guy

• Nice Guys believe that if they are good, giving, and caring, they will in return be happy, loved, and fulfilled.
• DEER is an acronym I use for: Defend Explain Excuse Rationalize. These are all fear-based behaviors used to distract others from focusing on the Nice Guy's mistakes and "badness
• Shedding Old Skin
  • They are not bad.
  • They don't have to do anything to win other people's approval.
  • They don't have to hide their perceived flaws or mistakes.
  • People can love them just as they are.
• TO DO LIST
  • If it frightens you, do it.
  • Don't settle. Every time you settle, you get exactly what you settled for.
  • Put yourself first.
  • No matter what happens, you will handle it.
  • Whatever you do, do it 100%.
  • If you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always got.
  • You are the only person on this planet responsible for your needs, wants, and happiness.
  • Ask for what you want.
  • If what you are doing isn't working, try something different.
  • Be clear and direct.
  • Learn to say "no."
  • Don't make excuses.
  • If you are an adult, you are old enough to make your own rules. 14, Let people help you.
  • Be honest with yourself.
  • Do not let anyone treat you badly. No one. Ever.
  • Remove yourself from a bad situation instead of waiting for the situation to change.
  • Don't tolerate the intolerable — ever.
  • Stop blaming. Victims never succeed.
  • Live with integrity. Decide what feels right to you, then do it. 21. Accept the consequences of your actions.
  • Be good to yourself.
  • Think "abundance."
  • Face difficult situations and conflict head on.
  • Don't do anything in secret
  • Do it now. 27. Be willing to let go of what you have so you can get what you want. 28. Have fun. If you are not having fun, something is wrong.
  • Give yourself room to fail. There are no mistakes, only learning experiences.
  • Control is an illusion. Let go; let life happen

- Collected by Chandra Kishor

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/36640169-think-straight

• True is what works
• Do what works for you
• Put a filter of true before consuming infomration
• Do not weight the thoughts that are result dependent
• Train your mind , it is a constant process, do not relax otherwise it will fatty
  -But the most important
  lesson I’ve learned was that you don’t regret what you did in life, you
  regret what you didn’t do
• Just sit down, be one with your thoughts, observe them, and then, ignore
  them. That’s all there is to meditation

- Collected by Chandra Kishor

• Finish what you start. Mean what you say. And don’t say one thing and do something else
• Consistency is an important aspect of repetition
• Groww, where you are planted
• when you are good at something make it best.
• Know your real value
• Start to say no
• Work for work, not to please someone
• Never say negative about yourself
• Create a difference of 10x to 100x to stand out

- Collected by Chandra Kishor

Goals without routines are wishes; routines without goals are aimless.

- Scaling Up

No one who can rise before dawn three hundred sixty days a year fails to make his family rich.

- Malcolm Gladwell, Outliers: The Story of Success

We should figure out where we are worthy, as, people will throw away their problems for some solutioner against the values they can afford.
Be the solutioner for the problem raiser whose time and value are much higher than others.

- Chandra Kishor

In this world take pity on three kinds of people. The rich man who has lost his fortune, the well-respected man who has lost his respectability, and the wise man who is surrounded by ignorants

- 40 Rules of love

Opportunity is a haughty goddess who waste no time with those who are unprepared.

- The Richeset Man in Babylon

This heterosuggestion process goes on in every home, office, factory, and club. You will find that many of these suggestions are for the purpose of making you think, feel, and act as others wnat you to and in ways that are to their advantage.

- The Richeset Man in Babylon

Advice is one thing that is freely given away, but watch that you take only what is worth having.

- The Richeset Man in Babylon

- Chandra Kishor

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-Rich Dad Poor Dad

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